CAUTION, BEWARE AND ALERTS
Here are just some of the precautionary measures and concerns to take to heart with these processes and ‘matters of the heart’: § There are some general problems with some, if not most of the matchmaking online dating services to date. § They could make wrong matches or NO matches at all. Although they may boast many members (some even have counters on their website), BEWARE the profiles are not always actually ‘real’ persons. § One can also have more than one profile online with the same provider. § It is also used as a marketing tool to ‘hook’ consumers and sometimes some of these online dating profiles are bogus and not real just to lure and get you in … for good! § It is not all bad either! Just ensure that you deal directly with a reputable provider, whether for match-making or online dating. § There are also numerous quality free dating sites where consumers do not have to pay/no-fee service, but can still use it and receive and reply to messages. § There are also numerous misrepresentations and ‘standard’ profiles that belie and/or stretch the truth somewhat. § Lack of trust and healthy skepticism is rampant and probably well-justified. § Many lie about their weight, qualifications, height etc. to compensate and increase their amount of hits. This is not a very reliable method of meeting others as you will have to explain it later. § Also be extremely careful with photo’s and personal information shared online as it might come back to haunt you. § You can not control how or what is said, compiled about your. The descriptions and characteristics are ‘generic’ to an extent. You can educate and empower yourself to make informed, smart, decisions and choices, even online and even for the purpose of dating, by being safe and diligent! YOU CAN HAVE RESULTS AND SUCCESS WITHOUT BEING DISHONEST OR LYING ABOUT YOURSELF, EMBELLISHING YOUR PROFILE IN ANY WAY THAT CAN COME BACK TO HAUNT YOU LATER. BE YOURSELF! Conclusion Armed with all these basics and fundamentals regarding online dating and matchmaking, as well as the know-how to find the perfect partner online, prepares you as well as you will ever be to enter and thrive in the online dating community, activity and new social global network! The trend is definitely here to stay. The days of chaperones and arranged marriages fading into the distance. MAKE WAY FOR TECHNOLOGY and the www-world of matchmaking and online dating. Parties, socials and bars used to be the dating scene options, now the repertoire and channels have exploded – no longer limited by our physical realities like place, time etc. It is also no longer merely about appearances and physical beauty. It is so superficial, people want common ground, things in common, closeness or distance, specific criteria and specification and they are more certain about what they want and what not! Technology empowers these trends, choices and preferences and will continue to do so as it redefines the parameters of how we relate and socialize in years and generations to come. Matchmaking and online dating is also about MORE than mere fun and games. There are a lot of things that you should be aware of before, during and after getting involved in online dating, before one gets into the trenches and intricacies of it all. It will affect and change your life forever! External appearances, personality and characteristics, history and personal circumstance – remember people are always MORE (or less) than what their profiles says/promises. This is one of the fundamental rules (unspoken) that you have to become familiar and up to speed with pretty quickly to be safe and increase your odds of finding your perfect, most appropriate match around. Whether you are of consenting age, 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, 60+… it does not matter, in the on-line dating world you will be finding yourself in some great company! You are not alone in and on this journey, with numerous fellow travelers seeking and finding what they are looking for in connection, interaction, exchange, love, intimacy, relationships, even marriage. Most people go on dates for a set of reasons, motivations and purposes – the match seem to be made more successfully if these are taken into account. Be open and honest about what it is that you want and need from this meeting/encounter and exchange. One of our main driving life-forces is making a meaningful connection (earlier it was for the survival of the species) these days these human relationships are formed for myriads of different reasons (even other than procreation)! Sites like www.datezilla.com promises you a lifetime romance and partner – a soul mate! It is this promise and potential, possibility (no matter how remote) that have and keep millions flocking onto these and similar sites, from the top 4 to the most recently launched niche newcomer sites to help in this human quest we all share and have in common. It addresses one of our basest of needs and we will keep relying on technology-enabled processes to help us find happiness, true love, Mr. or Ms. Right! We and our busy lives pose lots of obstacles and challenges to overcome in finding dates, love and life-partners for that matter. Our lives are not built or planned, lived or executed to actually make this happen. Our timing is off, we do not have enough time (ever) and so on and so forth… This process spans ages, locations and lifestyles. A great definition found online about online dating defines it as follows: LONELY HEARTS FIND SOUL MATES! This method of seeking, finding and meeting people has become the currency and transactional mechanism for online dating and relationships. Interest groups, specialist niche providers all cater to diverse consumer needs and requirements. For most dating sites it truly is about simply finding and making a match. Looking for a match/date (age, location, maybe a profile/photo) is all that are required to bring two parties together. Others use interviews, background checks, assessments and questionnaires, generic fields and matching tools to come up with filtered short-lists, custom-tailored to your tastes, preferences and selection criteria. One of the first things you have to opt for is free or at a cost, how much and who you will be using as an online dating provider. Creating your profile should also not be a tough challenge. You opt for what is in, what is out and remember that when reading other profiles as well. Be selective and relevant, picking those things that make you stand out from a crowd of competing profiles. Basic information like age, gender, location, age range, zip codes etc. are all used to make matches. Birth dates and email addresses are sensitive pieces of personal information, remember to get a generic mailbox address at Yahoo or Hotmail and NOT to use your own personal email address for online dating purposes. Facts about you specifically like your Height, weight, hair and eye color and body type are common pieces of data, you might also want to list piercing and tattoos. More details will follow on interests and activities, favorite sports, authors, music or movies, how you like to spend weekends.. and MORE. This essentially helps refine searches and optimizes your matches and return hits. Religious and political beliefs might also come into play, as might sexual orientation. Pets, occupation, income and living situation are also on some lists. This builds a comprehensive short-summary profile of you, placing it on record and in cue, lined up to be included or excluded in searches, real-time, on-demand, NOW, when live… THE GAME IS A-FOOT! |
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